DEAR SINGLE WOMAN…(A LETTER FROM GOD TO YOU)

Dear single woman,

When we formed you we knew who we wanted you to be. We made you special and unique. We gave you gifts and talents that are peculiar to you alone. Your eyes were made specially by our hands. All the features of your face and your physique were beautifully constructed under our craftsmanship. You are our masterpiece and you are beautiful.

You are the apple of our eyes. We mean it. We love you… deeply. We never take our eyes away from watching you. This kitchen is a Father who gives good gifts to His children and you are no exception because we deeply love you.

We want you to be married more than you want you to be married. We don’t want you to be married because society says so. Or because you feel like time is running out. We want you to be married because we created marriage to model something that is much deeper than a man and a woman coming together. It is a model of how deep your relationship with us should be.

That is why we want you to be fully connected to us first. We want you to rest in our arms and trust us fully. Fully. Do not lean on your own understanding. Accept our word fully and commit to it.

Be married to us. Be knee deep in your relationship with us. We won’t always tell you to do the things that are pleasing to you but we will always lead you to the path that is right for you.

Your flesh will resist but you must learn to walk by the spirit. You must consciously bear the fruit of the spirit. We are here to help you. Just be open to us and be sincere.

Because the man we have for you has to claim you from us. Remember that we give good gifts to our children. Good gifts only. And we have a good man for you. You will soon unravel your gift.

♥ God

*Our dear ladies, we planned on focusing today’s post on “things you should remind yourself of as a single lady” but when we came to our computer to type, the words that came to our spirit are those you see above. Hope this is life-changing for someone out there.

Thank you so much for being a part of this four-part series for single ladies with us. Here is a recap of what we have looked at in the past three weeks:

• How God prepares you for marriage- the formation process.
• How a good mentor influences your choice of a life-partner.
• How to wait for your husband.

We looked at three stories in the Bible, that of Eve, that of Ruth and that of Esther but focused more on the story of Ruth. This is what each woman represents:

Eve: God’s molding process. He is the potter and you are the clay. Let Him form you.

Ruth: Hard work, loyalty to leadership and a woman with a reputable character.

Esther: Beauty and a radical commitment to God.

Our final thoughts:

• Please read the book of Ruth. There’s so much to learn from her story!
• If this series was a blessing to you, please take a moment and share with your friends using the share buttons above or below.
• This particular series is ended but we will continue to write on relationships under the “singles” and “love n marriage” sections of the blog. So hope to see you more often!