Baci di Dama (Lady’s Kisses): Classic Italian Hazelnut Cookies

These delightful Italian cookies, known as Baci di Dama or Lady’s Kisses, are two small hazelnut-and-almond cookies sandwiched together with a chocolate-hazelnut filling. Lightly sweet and irresistibly nutty, they are perfect with coffee and make a charming gift.

An overhead shot of lady's kisses cookies in a large bowl with coffees at the side

I saw these cookies everywhere in Italy — stacked in bakeries alongside flaky pastries, custard-filled doughnuts and simple rustic cakes. What I love most is how they avoid cloying sweetness: the combination of crushed hazelnuts and ground almonds (almond flour) gives them a warm, nutty flavor and a delicate, crumbly texture.

The filling is intentionally modest — a small spoonful of chocolate-hazelnut spread keeps the balance so they pair perfectly with a cup of coffee. They are also easy to make and store well, so you can enjoy them over several days.

How To Make Lady’s Kisses (Baci di Dama) – Step By Step

Start by spreading the hazelnuts on a tray and toasting them in a preheated oven at 320°F (160°C) for about 5 minutes (photo 1).

Allow the nuts to cool briefly, then pulse them in a food processor until they resemble very fine breadcrumbs. Transfer the ground hazelnuts to a bowl and combine with the ground almonds, demerara sugar and plain flour (photos 2 & 3).

Add the softened butter to the dry mix and work it together with your hands until a cohesive dough forms. Shape the dough into a ball, wrap it in cling film and chill in the refrigerator for at least 2 hours to firm up (photos 4–6).

Step by step photos for making lady's kisses cookies

When the dough is chilled, remove it from the fridge. Pinch off a small piece, press it lightly between your fingers so it holds together, and roll it gently between your palms to form a ball about 1 inch (2.5 cm) across (photo 7).

Place the balls on a baking tray lined with parchment and bake at 320°F (160°C) for about 20 minutes. You may need to bake in two batches, depending on the size of your oven (photo 8).

To assemble, put approximately 1/2 teaspoon of chocolate-hazelnut spread on the flat side of one cookie, then sandwich it with a matching cookie. Press gently so the filling spreads evenly between them (photos 9–11).

A two collage image of sandwiching together lady's kisses cookies

Top Tips For Making These Cookies

  • Chill the dough for at least 2 hours so it firms up and is easier to roll.
  • When shaping, pick up only a small amount of dough and gently squash it between your fingers before rolling.
  • Roll very lightly in your palms — excessive pressure will make the dough crumble.
  • Allow the baked cookies to cool completely before handling; they are soft when hot and need to harden before filling.
  • If you prefer, fill them with melted dark or milk chocolate instead of a spread.
  • Store finished cookies in an airtight container for up to one week.

A close up of lady's kisses cookies in a bowl with two cups of coffee at the side

Ingredients

  • 2/3 cup (100g) hazelnuts
  • 1 cup (100g) ground almonds (almond flour)
  • 1/2 cup (100g) demerara sugar
  • 2/3 cup (100g) plain flour (all-purpose)
  • 1 cup (100g) butter, softened
  • 10 tsp chocolate-hazelnut spread (about 1/2 tsp per cookie)

Instructions

  • Preheat the oven to 320°F (160°C). Toast hazelnuts for 5 minutes, then cool briefly.
  • Pulse the hazelnuts to a fine crumb in a food processor. Combine with ground almonds, sugar and flour in a bowl.
  • Add softened butter and mix with your hands until a dough forms. Shape into a ball, wrap and chill for 2 hours.
  • Remove chilled dough. Pinch off small pieces, form 1-inch balls by rolling gently between your palms.
  • Place balls on a lined baking tray and bake at 320°F (160°C) for about 20 minutes. Cool completely on a wire rack.
  • Sandwich pairs of cookies with about 1/2 tsp chocolate-hazelnut spread and press gently to distribute the filling.

Nutrition (per cookie, approximate)

Calories: 266 kcal | Carbohydrates: 17 g | Protein: 4 g | Fat: 21 g | Saturated Fat: 7 g | Sugar: 7 g

Nutrition information is automatically calculated and should be used as an approximation.

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If you try these Lady’s Kisses (Baci di Dama), please share how they turned out. I enjoy reading feedback and hearing about your variations.