Dear single woman,
When I formed you I already knew who you were meant to be. I crafted you with care and intention, giving you gifts and talents that are uniquely yours. Your eyes, your facial features, and your whole body were shaped by my hands with precision and love. You are my masterpiece, and you are beautiful.
You are the apple of my eye. I mean it: I love you deeply and I never stop watching over you. I am a Father who delights in giving good gifts to my children, and you are no exception. Because I love you, I desire your good.
I want you to be married more than you want to be married, but not for the reasons society often pressures you. I don’t want you to enter marriage because the clock seems to be ticking or because others expect it of you. I created marriage to reflect something far deeper than two people coming together; it is a picture of the depth of relationship I want to have with you.
That is why I want you connected to me first. Rest in my arms and trust me completely. Do not lean on your own understanding. Receive my word and commit to it with your whole heart.
Be married to me—immerse yourself in our relationship. I won’t always advise you to pursue what feels easiest or most immediately pleasing, but I will guide you along the path that is right for you.
Your flesh will resist, but you must learn to walk by the Spirit. Consciously bear the fruit of the Spirit in your daily life. I am here to help; remain open and sincere with me.
The man I have for you will not take you from obscurity; he will claim you from my hands. Remember, I give good gifts to my children—only good gifts. I have prepared a good man for you, and in time you will receive this gift.
♥ God
*My dear ladies, I planned to write today’s post about “things you should remind yourself of as a single woman,” but when I sat down to type, the words above came to my spirit. I hope they bless and encourage someone out there.
Thank you for joining me in this four-part series for single women. Here’s a recap of what we’ve covered over the past three weeks:
- How God prepares you for marriage—the formation process.
- How a good mentor influences your choice of a life partner.
- Practical ways to wait well for your husband.
We explored three women from the Bible—Eve, Ruth, and Esther—focusing especially on Ruth. Each woman models something important for single women today:
Eve: The molding process—God as potter and you as clay. Allow Him to shape you.
Ruth: Diligence, loyalty to wise leadership, and a reputation of character.
Esther: Beauty paired with radical devotion to God.
Final thoughts:
- Read the book of Ruth—there is much wisdom and encouragement in her story.
- If this series has blessed you, please share it with friends who might be encouraged.
- Though this particular series has concluded, I will continue writing on relationships in the “singles” and “love n marriage” sections of the blog. I hope to see you back often.